‘Twas the Day After Christmas

Twas the Day after Christmas… and all through the house, every box was left empty… even the one kicked under the couch…

Well… you’ve arrived.  The post-Christmas hangover that has little to do with the abundance of eggnog, or that new Belgian beer you were gifted from that really cool uncle.  No, this is the hangover that you experience when all of the anticipation of gizmos and gadgets that were unpackaged created a silence in your soul that have you wondering if something was missed along the way.

Every year, the best intentioned of us approach the holiday season to get in touch with the true meaning of Christmas… something to do with the heart of the issue that says that Love didn’t come in the form of an accessory… but as living, breathing flesh.  The gift of presence… not presents.  The gift of touching human, not touching screen.

On Christmas Eve, I made a quick run up to the local Family Dollar to grab a special chord that I needed, and ran into a mad house.  See, we have a house on some land in a small town, and the Walmart is about a 20 minute drive away.  Our town has two dollar stores to accommodate a poorer population, and so this stop is not only convenient, but also a necessity for many who call this place home.

When I arrived, and made my way to the ‘technology’ aisle, I found it to be cleaned out.  Now hear me… while I’m not knocking the Family Dollar (it’s my store of choice for most everything essential), truth is, the shelves here don’t typically carry the top of the line products.  They are the knock off brands made for those with a tighter budget.  The shelves here were stripped bare.

These are the types of items, that in the 11th hour of Christmas shopping are there more to fill a void in the giver… than they are the recipient.  That void that screams, ‘so-in-so is going to be devastated on Christmas morning… if… they… don’t… have… one… more… thing… to… open…’

Now… don’t get me wrong… I’m not trying to scrooge away the magic that a child feels when, through that early morning grogginess get to see a beautiful tree with packages that contain their name.  I’m just advocating for the warm memories that last after they have all grown up, and they remember the feel of sitting on someone’s lap… under a blanket… on that long December morning from years gone by.

You know what I mean.

The good news is that the holidays are not over.  For many, the next week will continue to be filled with getting together with family and friends as we look forward to ringing in a new year… and yet anticipation begins to build.  That of a hope that says maybe next year will be even better that it is now.

And so, here is our hope for you: that you would consider meditating on some or all of the following things from our friends at Becoming Minimalist… and see if you can enjoy a happy and healthy 2014, and not stress that there are only 363 more shopping days till Christmas.

1. Spend Less | Choosing to accumulate only the essential often results in financial freedom.

2. Less Stress | A minimalist home is significantly less stressful.

3. Easier to Clean | The fewer things in our home, the easier they are to clean.

4. More Freedom | The sense of freedom that comes from minimalism is truly refreshing.

5. Good for the Environment | The less we consume, the less damage we do to the environment.

6. Be More Productive | Our possessions consume our time more than we realize.

7. Example for my Kids | These are valuable life lessons they will never learn in the media.

8. Support Other Causes | Money is only as valuable as what we choose to spend it on.

9. Own Higher Quality Things | More is not better… better is better.

10. Less Work for Someone Else | Create a less stressful life today and lessen the burden on someone else too.

11. Be Happier | Owning fewer possessions makes you happier.

12. Do Work You Love | Own less stuff. Choose work you love.

13. Freedom From the Comparison Game | Our culture begs us to own more.

14. Time for Things that Matter Most | The more stuff you own, the more your stuff owns you.

15. Visually Appealing | Make your home more appealing.

16. Not Tied to the Past | Release the past to create a better tomorrow.

17. Less Places for Your Heart | Invest your heart into meaningful things.

18. More Opportunity for Rest | Take a deep breath.

19. Find Things Easier | Own less clutter. Find stuff quicker.

20. Live in a Smaller Space | For most families, a house is the costliest investment they’ll ever make.

21. Display What You Value Most | Communicate what is most important.

New Years Eve Activities For Family

We’ve compiled a list of sites with activities the whole family will love… well… ok, that’s extreme.  But… we hope it helps in your search:

eHow’s ideas

Beauty and Bedlam


Make and Takes


Party 411

What kind of activites are you going to be doing with you and yours?

Send your ideas in the comment box, or email them to chadwickandamy@yahoo.com. We’ll compile them and share them in a post this weekend.